“Gifts” Response
Ralph Waldo Emerson has a unique view on giving/ receiving gifts. Gifts, according to him, should reflect a person’s skill, thought, and dedication rather than his or her wealth. He thinks that gifts should be received without as much as a “thank you”. To him, that means that beneficiary is giving too much credit to the benefactor for an act of kindness. By thanking the person, one is signifying the deed of gift-giving and will make the giver feel good. That shouldn’t be a motive for giving gifts should only feel rewarding to the recipient. Gift-giving will truly be a selfish process rather than something done purely for the recipient. The benefactor should give something that is a necessity to the recipient and not something that is simply luxurious or beautiful. As an example, Emerson goes on to say that the gift should resemble in the giver symbolically depending on what trade he or she practices. Emerson feels that in today’s society, we are giving way too many gifts that are materialistic and superficial. According to him, gifts should be given without any emotion and should be received without showing emotion. That way the benefactor will give gifts solely for the one he or she is giving to and not for feeling good themselves. The person on the receiving end shouldn’t show emotion to keep the benefactor modest. Emerson wants gifts to be personal and comments on the fact that people of any social status can give quality gifts as long as they are willing to apply themselves and give meaningful gifts that reflect a part of themselves. My life would be really different if I received Emersonian gifts. I wouldn’t have as many material things, but I would receive more personable gifts. This probably would make me unhappy at first, but I will appreciate the thoughtful gifts more in the long run. A great example of an Emersonian gift would be a self- made card. It demonstrates thought, ability, and care and is an excellent gift.
PASSAGE: “Necessity does everything well.”
In today’s society, many people are obsessed with luxurious things. People don’t realize that not receiving the ideal gift isn’t the end of the world. There are many people out there starving, thirsty, and homeless and what they need are bare necessities. For the people fortunate enough to have necessities, that can be viewed as an ultimate gift. If luxury was taken away and people still had food, water, clothes, and a shelter, we’d still be okay. Extravagant gifts are nice, but they aren’t everything by any means.